From Wikipedia:
"Tempering is a process of heat treating, which is used to increase the toughness of iron-based alloys. Tempering is usually performed after hardening, to reduce some of the excess hardness, and is done by heating the metal to some temperature below the critical point for a certain period of time, then allowing it to cool in still air. The exact temperature determines the amount of hardness removed, and depends on both the specific composition of the alloy and on the desired properties in the finished product. For instance, very hard tools are often tempered at low temperatures, while springs are tempered to much higher temperatures."
A process of heat treating designed to reduce excess hardness. It is done by heating metal below the critical point for a certain period of time. Ouch. That does not sound like fun.
Unfortunately (or fortunately as I'll show) Katie and I are being tempered.
We have now been in Maui for three and a half weeks! However it seems like is has been much longer. There have been many trials and difficulties already. It certainly has not been a vacation! The best way to describe what we have been though is that we are being tempered.
We have been put through a lot of heating (both metaphorically and literally, Hawaii is hot!) over the past month. We have written about it before but even just getting to Hawaii was filled with trials and hardships! That was before we arrived! Since we got here there have been difficult times over and over again. In between those times, however, were moments of peace were we could relax and bask in the glory of God. Overall we were definitely heated below our critical point time and time again. The cool thing is, after each period of heat tempering we were given a chance to cool in still air. I can feel a lot of my hardness being faded away. My hardened heart has been softened. I've always felt like I had good faith in God, but this process of tempering has made my faith so much stronger. We have been one day from having to leave our condo and live out of our car and God provided. We have been stuck at the airport with no way to get on a plane and God provided. God ALWAYS provides.
But we're not done yet.
Tempering is a process that can take a very long time over multiple treatments. It is not something that you do once and it's over. Even though you get a chance to cool in between each treatment it is not long before you are out back into the flames. Even after all we have been through there is always more.
In her last post Katie talked about the amazing blessing God provided us with an anonymous donation placed directly into our bank account. That kept us from living in our car for the last week! We got a chance to rest and breathe a sigh of relief. Even so, we still only have funds to stay in our current condo until the end of the month. So once again we are being heated, tested.
In addition to having to worry about finances and living accommodations we are being heated and tested by our two beautiful children. Clayton, 3 and Chloe, 1 don't fully understand what has been going on. Because of that they have had a hard time adjusting to new sleep schedules, the new places we have stayed at, and the lack of a solid routine. God is tempering me and reducing my hardness so I can be more patient and as loving of a father as I could be.
I am being tempered in my job search. Though, thanks to God's amazing goodness, Katie has been hired for an amazing job!! (I'll let her tell you more about that in her next post.) I have had difficulties in finding work. However, there may be an opportunity for me to get a job that is also a type of ministry reaching out to struggling families on the island. Please pray that this will be where God is calling me to work so I can reach out and make connections and help parents in need!
There is a lot of tempering going on. In the months before we moved to Maui, I felt God had made huge changes in me and my life. The last three weeks has seen more changes and at ten times the rate! I feel like a completely different person than who I was when we moved here. A person who is even more on love with God and even more excited to see what He can do! I have more faith in Him than ever! Even though I know there is much more tempering to come!
I also feel a very strong direction for the future ministry God has in store for me and my family. Something crazy and amazing and just plain awesome. I pray every day that God will help direct my path to make this ministry possible. Even though it will likely be years in the future, I am so excited to see what God will do and excited to see the part He let's me play in His plans!
Being tempered isn't fun. It hurts. It burns. But it is necessary to become the man God wants me to be. Therefore I rejoice in the flames!
Please continue to pray for me and my family. Knowing that so many people are praying for us fills our hearts with joy. Some specific prayer requests:
1. That God will continue to provide us with a place to stay. Whether it is week by week like we have been living so far or a new place for us to call home, He has provided everything so far and will continue to provide!
2. That God would provide me with this amazing opportunity to work with families as a job and a ministry.
3. That God would give Katie and I patience and wisdom in raising our wonderful children. Give us strength to raise them how God would have us raise them.
4. That Katie will love her new job and make awesome friends and connections with her work.
5. That Katie and I will be able to withstand all tempering and come out better than ever.
If you would like to help financially while we continue to get settled and look for a rental, there is a donation button on the right of the blog web page. It does not appear in the mobile version if you are having trouble finding it.
Again, thank you for your prayers.
And,
Aloha Y'all.